What I want to tell every new dog handler

Dear new dog owners:

Sometimes when I journal, I like to talk to my “past self” as a way of reflecting, processing, and celebrating how much I’ve grown. These thoughts were inspired by my early days of dog ownership.

This is what I wish I could tell myself as a new dog owner — and what I want to tell you, too.

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What I wish I knew about dog training

• You’ve been training your dog from the moment you brought her home.

• He doesn’t understand English. Not even the word “no”.

• He won’t automatically know how to walk on a loose leash.

• There is a lot of information out there. Keep an open mind — and ask questions!

• Daily lifestyle skills might be less glamorous, but they are more impactful than any cute trick.

• (Tricks are fun too.)

What I wish I knew about who our dogs are

• It’s not all in how you raise them.

• Socialization is more about being neutral to new environments than interacting with them.

• Reputable breeders are vital to preserve the species we love.

• A wagging tail doesn’t always mean happiness.

• Your dog comes from generations of magnificent beasts. (Yes, even if she’s tiny and fluffy.)

• She has emotions and off days, too.

What I wish I knew about dogs in public

• Some people are afraid of dogs. That’s okay.

• If you want him to be calm and well-behaved in public, you have to teach him.

• Not every person or other dog wants to “say hi”. Respect that!

• Dog parks and daycares have the potential to cause problems. Understand the risks, and make informed decisions for your lifestyle.

• Letting your dog off-leash is a privilege, not a right. If there is any chance he will approach someone without permission, keep the leash on.

What I wish I knew about my dog’s health

• Fat dogs aren’t cute. They’re uncomfortable and unhealthy.

• If his nails are too long, they will hurt him (and negatively affect the way he walks).

What I wish I knew about dog training tools

• Muzzles are used for lots of things other than aggression, and it’s a great idea to get your dog comfortable with one.

• No collar, harness, leash, or other gadget is a magic wand that excuses you from training.

• It’s less about training tools themselves and more about how they’re used.

• Flexi leads aren’t the work of the devil.

What I wish I knew about our relationship

• She doesn’t know that you rescued her. You’re a stranger and need to earn her trust.

• Every dog is an individual. Your goals don’t have to look the same as anyone else’s.

• You will make mistakes. Your dog is resilient. You are resilient.

• Your dog’s safety is more important than anyone’s opinion of you.

• He isn’t plotting against you. I promise.

• More than anything, this journey will change you if you let it.

• Embrace the ups and downs — give your heart freely.