In favor of retractable leashes (and how we use our flexi responsibly)

Two photos sit side by side, both showing our blue heeler Scout wearing her retractable leash on different park outings

Updated post: This article was first published on June 4th, 2020 and most recently updated in March 2024.

Flexi leads. Retractable leashes. Dog tape measures. Horrible tools that should be banned immediately. On-leash off-leash freedom. One of the biggest taboos in dog training.

Whatever you call them, there’s no denying that retractable leashes are a mixed bag in the dog world. At this point I might even argue that they are one of the most controversial tools we can put on our dogs.

When I tell someone that we love our flexi lead, I get everything from befuddled looks of shock (“aren’t you like, obsessed with being a responsible dog owner?“) to flat-out condemnation.


Finally, something different trainers can agree on?

While many tool debates seem to create “sides” — most of the balanced dog training community in favor of prong collars while the force-free community is against them and vice versa for front-clipping harnesses, for example — flexi leads often appear universally hated.

In fact, an anti-retractable stand-up comedy bit by a guy named Drew Lynch went viral across the dog community. Casual pet people and seasoned trainers alike enjoyed laughing together as he ripped on negligent dog owners in what’s admittedly a great piece of humor.

Give it a watch yourself, and tell me at least part of you wasn’t vehemently cheering along:

Good stuff, right?


When retractable leads go wrong, they go really wrong

Flexi leads can be dangerous. So can a multitude of other dog training and walking tools — I’d argue all of them, in fact — but there’s no denying that:

  1. Retractable leashes are easier to misuse than their standard-length counterparts, and
  2. When a flexi lead is used incorrectly, the consequences can be particularly extreme.

When you read the words “flexi lead”, what comes to mind? For me, the first thing I picture is an out-of-control dog running a full block ahead of their owner. They’re barking at people, they’re getting in the personal space of other dogs… they’re really just ruining the evening walk experience of the entire neighborhood.

The vision gets even worse if I imagine this in a city or crowded park — or when I remember that:

  • Some of the folks simply minding their own business nearby might be afraid of dogs
  • The flexi-lead-wearing canine could trample protected wildlife or neighbor’s careful landscaping
  • Other pet owners being charged by this unfamiliar dog could have spent months building their dogs’ faith in handler to overcome fear reactivity only to be ambushed by clueless Jane Doe and her retractable leash

One word: yikes.

Flexi leads are known for a range of problems

The above scenario is all too common. It’s often enough to completely turn dog owners off of retractable leashes for good.

These dog “tape measures” are notorious for plenty of other issues, too:

  • Constant leash pressure: Many dog trainers believe retractable leads teach dogs to pull by rewarding them with more freedom when they fight the line’s resistance. That’s pretty much the opposite of the understanding of leash pressure we want!
  • Tangles: The thin, string-like flexi leash varieties can easily get tangled with each other — and they’re a nightmare to separate. This is especially dangerous in dog fight situations.
  • Breakage: Some more cheaply constructed retractable leads can split open in the middle of walk.
  • Poor grips: The hard grip of flexi leads can be difficult to hold, increasing the chance that they drop it and fully lose control.
  • Panic in dogs: If an owner drops their retractable leash, it can dramatically scare their dog. Because the handle reels in towards whatever it’s attached to, pets may feel as though they’re being chased — so they just keep running farther.
  • Injuries: Humans and dogs alike have been injured by flexi leads, particularly when the string gets wrapped around a finger or leg. Talk about a spectacular rope burn.

That’s quite the laundry list, right? It’s no wonder that jumping aboard the “flexi leashes are awful” bandwagon is the popular move.


But what if retractable leashes aren’t all bad?

In case the above sections aren’t clear: I don’t think that flexi leads should be the average owner’s go-to for every walk around the neighborhood.

But I do think retractable leashes can be amazing tools in the right hands. It would be remiss to write them off completely!

The Matrix, anyone?

Any tool can be misused. Leashes. Collars. Harnesses. Food. So much of a specific tool’s success or failure lies in our hands as owners and trainers.

There is a time and place to use a retractable lead — just as there is a time and place to use a harness or some high-value treats or an ecollar or pretty much anything else.

Acknowledging that there might be situations where using a certain tool is a good decision is not the same as wholeheartedly recommending its use in every scenario. I don’t encourage the entire world to go out and use flexi leashes willy nilly!

But I do encourage responsible owners to not be afraid of their benefits.

The “good side” of flexi leads does exist

Though their usage is wrought with problems, retractable leashes have plenty of great traits too.

I learned a lot about their responsible implementation from dog trainer Jay Jack, and I think his ebook says it well. Here’s a summary of what a properly used flexi lead can do for you and your dog:

  • Help teach leash manners: Jay actually uses retractable leashes to teach dogs how to walk politely on leash. It’s a fun, game-based style of learning that builds killer engagement.
  • Help sensitive dogs get used to pressure: Some dogs are really sensitive to leash pressure and shut down when it’s applied. Scout is a little bit like this. We’ve come a long way, but there are still times where any resistance freezes her in her tracks. Getting her used to feeling a small amount of pressure on our retractable lead has helped her become more confident!
  • Provide more freedom while maintaining control: Retractable leashes are perfect in situations where you think your dog would do well off leash, but you still want an extra layer of control just in case — or you want to respect the legislative intent of leash laws while allowing your companion more space to romp.

“Why not just use a long line?”

Many people (myself included) often use long lines to give their dogs more freedom while still having ultimate physical control. This works well in many situations — but flexi leads can be even easier to use because they manage the leash slack themselves.

This is important from an accessibility standpoint. And the convenience also helps if our goal is to increase owner compliance with the legislative intent of leash laws!

If a handler finds that their long line keeps getting tangled and dirty, they might be more likely to just unclip the leash altogether. If their retractable lead is conveniently managing the slack, though, there’s a greater chance that they’ll keep it on.

I’m reminded of author Tim Ferris talking about the “best” strategy to achieve any given goal. He concedes that the actual best method isn’t just the one with the greatest chance of success on paper — it’s the one with both a high chance of success and a high probability of compliance.

The convenience of a quality retractable leash can make it easier for owners to follow through on keeping their dogs from disturbing wildlife, the environment, and fellow park users even when it’s really tempting to completely throw caution to the wind.

“But doesn’t the resistance teach dogs to pull?”

This point is often debated. I think the truth, quite simply, is that every dog is different.

Some dogs — especially those on the small end — might become desensitized to leash pressure if they always feel a retractable leash clipped to their collar. Others might barely notice it.

Jay Jack once measured the resistance of his particular retractable leash model at about six ounces. He contrasted that to the smallest ecollar he could find at the time, which weighed about eight ounces.

Of course, those two things aren’t directly comparable — but it stands to reason that a few ounces coming from different directions might not be that big of a deal. This is especially true when we consider that dragging a long line also puts resistance on a dog’s neck.

If we are nervous about the resistance of a retractable leash ruining our dogs’ leash manners, though, there’s an easy solution: attach it to a harness instead! We’ve taught Scout she’s allowed to pull into any back-clipping harness but needs to yield to leash pressure on a collar, and it’s been a great distinction.


We proudly — and carefully — use a retractable leash to have more fun together

I love our flexi lead. I think it’s absolutely awesome. Our retractable made some particularly enjoyable beach trips possible for us when we moved to Florida — and it’s a regular choice for trail walks and park visits now that we live on the road in our van.

Some situations just lend themselves really well to a greater level of freedom without worrying over long-line slack!

While I’m proud to say this is a tool in our toolbox, we don’t use our flexi lead like clueless Jane Doe in the story up above though… and you’ll definitely never find us in a Drew Lynch comedy bit 😉

Here’s how we use our flexi lead safely and respectfully

Being responsible is always important to us, and especially when such a controversial tool is involved.

1) We treat our retractable leash a lot like being off leash

I only put Scout on our flexi lead in situations where I’d feel pretty comfortable with her being all the way off leash. We don’t use the retractable anywhere that’s crowded or confined!

For us, this often looks like sniffari walks to open natural areas. (We like to go to parks and easy hiking trails when it’s raining, windy, or otherwise “terrible”. It means no one else is around and we can have the space to ourselves.)

Honestly, it’s sometimes tempting to break leash laws entirely in truly empty situations… but we value the nearby wildlife (and the simple, delightful fact that dogs are even allowed at our favorite parks, beaches, and other spots at all) too much to give in.

We also don’t expect the leash to be our only connection to Scout. Her recall and desire to simply stay near us of her own accord need to be solid, too.

2) We only use an all-belt, ribbon, or tape flexi

No cattle dogs on a string here — our flexi leash is a tape variety, sometimes also called belt or ribbon. The entire length of leash is a fluorescent flat belt, which serves a few different purposes.

  • The thicker line is much easier to untangle than a thin string would be.
  • Folks can see the entire length of leash from far away, so even at a distance they know that Scout is attached to us and under control. Hopefully this eases the minds of people who might be afraid of off-leash dogs!
  • We can grab it, if needed, without worrying too much about rope burn.
  • The line is less likely to snap or break if it gets caught on something.
A tape-style retractable leash, the Flexi Giant large
An example of a tape-style flexi lead. We have the Flexi Giant Medium.

3) We regularly check that our leash is in good shape

As with any tool, I understand that our retractable leash could break. Before using it each time, we check that it’s still in good condition with no obvious signs of acute damage or excessive natural wear.

4) We usually attach our retractable leash to a harness

We’ve taught Scout that she can pull into a harness but must yield to leash pressure from her collar. Most of the time, we attach our flexi lead to her harness so that the slight resistance she feels doesn’t run the risk of upsetting her leash training.

Sometimes, though, we do attach the retractable leash to her collar. It’s such a slight amount of pressure that it’s never been a big deal for our individual situation — and I’m happy to say her (fairly stellar, if I may boast for a second) leash manners have remained completely intact.

If we decide to attach the flexi to her neck, we make sure of a few things:

  • The collar is wide (1.5 inch minimum) so that the resistance is distributed over a large surface area.
  • It’s also loose enough to turn around her neck so that the pressure doesn’t always come from the exact same place.
  • We double-check that the collar buckle is not cracked or at immediate risk of breaking under force.

5) We bring a standard leash along with us as back up

A retractable leash is rarely the only walking tool we have with us. We typically bring a standard fixed-length leash along too!

One of my personal favorite combinations is to attach our flexi lead to Scout’s harness and then carry a slip lead in my pocket. This way I can quickly recall her and put the slip over her head if we come in close proximity with other people or dogs.

We’ll also often go somewhere with Scout on her six-foot leash and bring the flexi along just in case the opportunity arises. When entering the beach boardwalk, for example, she can wear her regular lead for optimum control — and once we confirm that the beach is empty, we might then decide to switch over to the retractable.

Another possible solution to this is to simply lock the flexi when in a tighter area. I don’t think this gives quite the visual cue of “under control” that a standard leash does, but it’s reasonable in many situations!


Despite popular opinion, not even retractable leashes are black and white

At the end of the day, flexi leads aren’t as black and white as many dog owners and trainers make them seem. They’re the tool we “love to hate” — but they’re not all bad.

In the right hands, retractable leashes can be a wonderfully responsible way to enjoy more freedom with our dogs.

In the wrong hands, they can be disastrous. (Reminds me of several other dog training tools, too.)

I think one of the most important things we can do as responsible dog owners is keep an open mind. When we consider different perspectives and take the time to logically think through situations (instead of passing instant judgment) we have an amazing opportunity to learn, grow, and ultimately do more for our dogs.

You won’t find me encouraging everyone and their brother to go out and buy a retractable leash tomorrow… but you also won’t find me hiding the fact that we own, use, and love one ourselves.

Happy flexi-ing!

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Juliette July 30, 2021 - 2:24 pm

What I can’t stand is when people let the dog way off behind them some of those leashes extend way out. A guy did this to me this AM I was out walking on a trail. He’s walking a dog cute bulldog and another Mixed dog. One of the dogs (bulldog) was following him and the other Mixed dog stayed behind 20 feet to growl at me and block me. I couldn’t pass, really couldn’t do anything . I’m a dog owner, Beagles, boykins, etc, but I have never let my dog roam or extend out in a crowded area. The people in this area are sooooo stupid about Dogs, their needs and other humans needs, but for now just trying to figure out why sooooo stupid and wish people would wise up. They go rescue a dog know nothing about it and then hold everyone else accountable. it’s ridiculous. Anyway, I told the guy that I needed to pass and could he rein his dog in? He assured me it was a sweetheart. Yeah, uh huh. Go get training for your self and your dog somewhere besides a big box Pet store and get yourself and your dog trained and learn some Trail manners! It doesn’t matter if the dog liked me or WHY it was growling none of that matters, what matters is he needed to have control over his dog. I don’t need to know why. He just needed to control it.

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Haley March 3, 2022 - 9:48 am

That’s definitely a hard situation. I think public respect is a really important value — and there are so many small, low-effort steps we can take as owners to make sure our presence doesn’t negatively affect someone else’s experience of a space.

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Timothy O'Toole July 14, 2021 - 3:21 pm

I have invented and patented a hands free safety attachment for retractable leads such as Flexi to prevent lead loss and injury that usually follows it can be attached to all lead types and petsathome have been trailing it for the last year and may soon appear on their shelves in England soon and will be shown at Crufts in March it will give you extra security and Safety on you walks look out for it on the petsathome website

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I absolutely love that small bungee idea!

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