Relationships

Making my own peanut butter pie crust sundae

This is about ice cream. But also more than ice cream.

36 mins ago •

Kind to individuals, critical of systems

My first-ever Substack video: some real-time ramblings

Mar 6 •

2:26

Why I love to eschew marriage norms

Pride in the juxtaposition between where I used to be and where I am now

Mar 5 •

Farewell February. I wrote a lot this month!

Here's where you can read what I wrote, if that sounds like fun.

Mar 2 •

Nomad Haley and Wisconsin Haley

Also, have you ever written about yourself in third person? Is it just plain weird... or weirdly centering?

Feb 26 •

Thank you for not treating her like a retriever

On Scout's cattle-dogginess, time with loved ones, and lots of gratitude

Feb 24 •

Judging without judging

On the messiness of making different choices from each other (and talking about the reasons why)

Feb 21 •

I miss Scout, and Sean, and me

There are so many moments I'd forgotten. There are so many more I'll never remember.

Feb 21 •

Well-behaved and composed and good

“We never scold her for anything anymore,” Sean remarked the other day. He’s right—we never need to.

Feb 13 •

I meet my younger self for coffee

Inspired by the vertical video trend based on Jennae Cecelia's poem

Feb 11 •

You know, hedging my communication can be, well, prosocial?

On talking more assertively, leaving room for nuance, and deeply enjoying "Wordslut" by Amanda Montell

Feb 6 •

What I get out of social media

And ways I might find these things elsewhere, off of Instagram

Feb 4 •

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