Relationships

They all say that “it gets better” but what if I don’t?

When am I gonna stop being wise beyond my years and just start being wise?

Apr 14 •

What does "gossip" mean?

And how bad (or actually productive and prosocial) is it?

Apr 11 •

Am I becoming more social?

Or is dissipating social anxiety just allowing me to enjoy people more?

Apr 6 •

Happy third wedding anniversary!

On almost getting married young, then actually getting married young, and celebrating dates

Apr 4 •

March reading recap

A romantasy rabbit hole, a favorite essay collection, dark corporate surrealism, etc

Apr 2 •

Dogs need more than love

Well, depending on how we define "love".

Mar 19 •

Making my own peanut butter pie crust sundaes

This is about ice cream. But also more than ice cream.

Mar 12 •

Kind to individuals, critical of systems

My first-ever Substack video: some real-time ramblings

Mar 6 •

2:26

Why I love to eschew marriage norms

Pride in the juxtaposition between where I used to be and where I am now

Mar 5 •

Farewell February. I wrote a lot this month!

Here's where you can read what I wrote, if that sounds like fun.

Mar 2 •

Nomad Haley and Wisconsin Haley

Also, have you ever written about yourself in third person? Is it just plain weird... or weirdly centering?

Feb 26 •

Thank you for not treating her like a retriever

On Scout's cattle-dogginess, time with loved ones, and lots of gratitude

Feb 24 •

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