Personal

I want to be a published author. Right?

Why I'm dragging my feet to make my "first book" real

Nov 12 •

Notes on Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma by Claire Dederer

“What do we do with the art of monstrous men?” "What do we do about the monstrous people we love?”

Nov 8 •

Drifting in jealousy of imagined lives

On the version of me who made different (read: better) decisions

Nov 5 •

October Instagram Q&A

Questions and answers originally received/shared via Instagram and then compiled here.

Nov 4 •

On "owning" my flaws and struggles and mistakes

Self awareness is necessary—but not sufficient

Sep 29 •

My relationship might be most romantic when it isn't

Thoughts on "romance" and definitions and connotations and personal values

Sep 26 •

We moved to Substack!

The why, how, and some details on the change

Sep 21 •

How do I even make sense of this summer?

Reflections on three months of high highs and low lows

Sep 18 •

Reflecting on social media, again

Parasocial relationships and true connections and what's next

Sep 14 •

Noah Kahan at Alpine Valley Music Theatre, take two

Just want to remember (everywhere) everything about this

Sep 13 •

My old favorite park appears to be cursed

Stories of lost cats, harassment, bitterness, and confusion

Sep 4 •

Things that bring me joy lately

I almost titled this “little” things that bring me joy. But you know what? The happiness provided is big.

Aug 31 •

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